New Year, New Goals

I've been slacking in the slacking department.  That's when you know it's bad. ;)

For my sake, we will call it re-prioritizing.  So here I am again, attempting to write about something that has inspired me.      

So it's confessional time here.  I despise the whole idea of new years goals.  It's like an addict setting a date of recovery.  Why not do it now?  But since it's new years and I had an epiphany on Tuesday, that's what we will call it.  

Let me take you back to Sunday so we can get to Tuesday's enlightenment.  Sunday's best clothing. Sitting on the church pew.  Little legs wiggling.  I'm listening to the preachers topic.  It goes as follows: "Beware lest any man spoil you through vain philosophy and deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ." Colossians 2:8.    

What does that mean? The Pastor used an example.  I will paraphrase.  He said,  "I sat in the house of a young man.  As his wife drove away, he buried his face in his hands.  When he made a vow to be with her forever, he didn't give up on it.  But his wife bought into the vain philosophy that life was all about her happiness."

How many of us have been there? Maybe not in this young man situation particularly, but have put our own happiness above doing the right thing?  

I have. 

Or maybe buying into the traditions and ideas of others that are opposing what God asks of us?  

I have.  I do.  

That's why I call this confessional time. Maybe I should rename the title.  Anyway, some days I buy into the vain philosophies the world has.  To name one, the philosophies about grades and education.  Slowly, day by day, I stop focusing on learning.  And slowly I begin to focus on grades and how many pages of what subjects were done.  Or can she pass the test? I can get my red pen out and slash away at mistakes and loose my child's heart. Or equally terrible, her love of learning.   

It's a come to Jesus moment here. 

Remembering that I don't remember hardly a thing of what I learned in school, I considered where we were going.  Is the end goal getting a certificate?  If that's my goal for Katie, then I have tunnel vision.  

The truth is here that I am a high school drop out.  Dropped out in 11th grade.  Got my GED.  In talking with high school graduates and even college graduates, I am not alone.  They have forgotten calculus, algebra, even fractions.  I don't remember history.  Never learned politics.  Don't care about Geography really.    

It's not about what I know.  It's about finding what I need to know to teach her.  

Homeschooling is a challenge, it doesn't come naturally for me.  It doesn't bring happiness some days.  But I am in it for the long run.  

People say, "Oh you're little girl is so sweet, God blessed you with a little child who's just so sweet. I could never homeschool my kids.  They aren't sweet.  I love my kids but they would drive me crazy." That's a compliment to us.  Of course, she's not perfect.  But the truth is really that yes, she is sweet. But it's not because she was born that way.  2's and even 3's were challenging.  There were days I wanted to be anyone but a mom because I didn't like the person she was becoming.  

My husband and I have spent our time teaching her what it means to be a person that is to be enjoyed.  Not purposefully.  But by habit.  We laugh at the jokes that are funny, and rebuke the tacky ridiculous jokes. But that only works if your children want to please you.  And they will only want to please you if you have won their favor.     

It's a good thing to win the favor of your child.  But a bad thing too!  And I say bad in my case because I am half the woman I should be.  And if she wants to be like me, God has a lot of work to do in my life.  But don't think for one minute that I don't take that seriously.  Somedays I spend the majority of my day admitting my faults and asking her to hold me accountable to changing them.  One day she slipped me a scripture about "keeping those things which we have committed."  I thank her for the reminders. Everyday I see her pick up my bad habits, I pray to God for grace to change myself for her sake.   

Can we win the hearts of our children by commanding them to do so many pages a day or requiring certain grades out of them?  No.  We just put an traditional image on them to be upheld. One could say grades are the evidence of what they have learned.  Sure, temporarily.  But come review time, they don't remember some random subject they were never interested in to begin with.  It's a filling up of precious time that can't be regained with useless information they will never remember.  Anyone relate?   

So here we are on Tuesday now.  I am reading a book complied by a bunch of older women who have homeschooled their children that did not have the luxury of a curriculum.  They paved the way for us modern day homeschoolers by fighting the law tooth and nail to have daytime custody of their children.  They didn't have someone telling them how to school their little ones.  Just a Bible and conviction in their hearts.  They learned quickly what they did wrong and things they did right. And one of the women said, "I asked my children often, 'What are you going to do with this life God gave you?'"

So here goes.  I said to Katie, "What are you going to do with this life God gave you?" 

Her response, "What does that have to do with playing?" 

Yikes.  I'm a failure! 

I said, "Nothing," and I repeated the question again. 

There is wisdom with the words that woman spoke because Katie's vision for the future begins to come out. She starts dreaming.  Inspiration is bubbling, I could see it in those big eyes as they lit up.  She's no longer focused on the temporal playing but her mind is drifting and imagination is churning in that sweet little head.  The mouth starts spewing her thoughts. So this led me to question how I can get her to that dream.  What will she need to know?  That question turns into a "school day" of learning about Syria.  I didn't know where Syria was at first.  Didn't know about Paul loosing his sight on the road to Syria's capital (Damascus).  Didn't know that was the first place Paul preached Christianity.  We found so much information on Syria right on our home computer.  It has inspired her to pray for this country.  Which by the way, needs it! We learned it is history's longest inhabited area. That information started entering her brain and caused her to ponder why God says Damascus is destined to become 'a pile of ruinous heap' in the end times per Isaiah 17:1. She didn't understand why, if it's the first place Paul preached Christianity, is it that only 10% of the population is Christian and 74% Muslim.  How did that happen she asked? Questions lead to answers.  Answers require learning.  

 
Katie may not remember the facts about Syria as she gets older. She may find that God has a different plan for her life.  However, it is my job to help her arrive to wherever that may be.  To spark an interest in her heart to discover and learn.  If I could only dream as big as her!  

What are you going to do with this life God gave you?

My daughter Katie on left, our sweet friend Kate on the right.  

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"Syria is a horrible place to live right now because of the war with ISIS.  I wanted to learn about the continent of Asia and we chose Syria.  Syria is the area in Asia that is the most in need of our help.  Lots of kids there are getting injured because of the war.

I want to be a vet when I grow up.  I love animals and to me, that's all that matter.  Animals matter because, like cows, they give us food and milk.  Dogs and cats are good friends to people. And our sheep steps on our toes all day. :) She might give us a lamb if we get a ram.  I really love animals.  I don't know if I am going to have a farm when I grow up but right now, I really just love working with animals.  And I really like the cat Turkish Angora, it's pretty.  I know that one because I have a big cat book. I really do want to be a vet when I grow older but I am open to whatever God's plan is for me in my life." ~ Katie 8 years old   

New Birth

Since the beginning, it's kind of been our family tradition to own Australian Cattle Dogs. Though the official state of Texas dogs are the agile hard working Lacy dogs, there's a Texas feel to the Australian Cattle Dogs. And since our state is all about some cattle business, the Blue Heelers are commonly owned by ranchers for their stock working ability.

The Australian Cattle Dogs, also known as Blue Heelers, started long ago in the land down under.  Though many still debate to this day the heritage of the Blue Heeler,  it is said that they began from the aboriginal Dingo.  The Dingo is Australia's version of a coyote. It has been said that the Dingo's were taken from their mom's at an early age, hand reared by the aborigines, and taught to hunt and track.   

Dingo 

In the early 1800's the first settlers had limited availability for laborers and were having difficulty controlling the large herds of cattle that grazed on wide open unfenced land.  So they decided to give the Smithfields a chance at herding the cattle.  The Smithfields could not tolerate the heat, were slow on their feet, scared the cattle with continuous bark, and bit the cattle too severely.  

Smithfield 

Then a man named Timmins came up with a plan to cross breed the Dingo with Smithfield.  Which resulted in a great silent cattle herding dog with one fault.  If the dog wandered out of the owners sight, it would chew the cattle to pieces.

After introducing a rough haired collie into the mix, they soon realized the new breed was going for the cattle's head which caused them to run wild.  That soon died out.  

Then came the imported smooth haired blue merle Highland Collies who were bred into the dingo blood infusion from above.  The new breed resulted in the Dingo's trait to creep in from behind, nipping at the heel until the stubborn cattle decided to rejoin the herd without the tearing them to shreds part!  Instinctively the new breed would flatten itself out on the ground after nipping the heels to avoid any kicks lashed out.  Alas, the perfect cattle dog. 

Smooth Haired Blue Merle Highland Collie

So why not leave well enough alone?  The cross breed wasn't all that friendly with horses or humans.  There is always room for improvement, right?  The Dalmatian was soon bred into the mix to give them a good rapport among the horses (and humans).  Once this gene was introduced, it created a friendlier dog that was born primarily white only to obtain markings at around 3 weeks of age.

Dalmatian
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As much as the Dalmatian's influence improved the working relationship with humans and horses, it didn't come without consequence.  Some of their working ability was lost with this new cross.  No problem, they had a solution! After admiring the working ability of the black and tan Kelpie, they decided to add them to the mix.   

Black and tan working Kelpie
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All of these breeds together in perfect balance obtained a line of hard working, friendly, agile, high stamina, highly intelligent, beautifully marked, controllable, dogs that could tolerate heat.   

Whala!  And now you have an Australian Cattle Dog.  Interesting huh?

Australian Cattle Dog
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So why the title new birth?

 Female Sissy (left)     Male Charlie (right) 

1 Mom + 1 Dad 

Equals 9. (that's homeschool math) 

Born on Sept 19, 2014, we have reserved homes for all puppies! (the darkest puppy didn't make it) 

Yes, we have new puppies!  

Is all of this part of homeschool lessons?  Heck yes!

 

***Update on Pete****
The new baby kitty from last blog.

He is off meds and doing great. Eating crunchy food.  Though we are pretty sure he will be on the "Baba" forever.

Pete got to meet new puppies.  New mom (Sissy) was welcoming and also in booty-licking-bathing-the-litter-Mom-mode-so she gave him a good bath.  (Which he really needed!)  He wasn't too happy about it.

"I really enjoy having the new puppies.  The most interesting thing is that they have Dalmatian in them! It was sad when we took them to the vet because I could hear them yelping when they had their dew claws removed.  Some of the new owners wanted their tails docked.  I like them with tails!"~Katie 8 years old

Oh all this fuzzy baby goodness going on around here is just good for the soul!

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A Vision All Her Own

For a while now, we have known that Katie has a special gift with animals.

It's like she instinctively knows what to do and how to train animals.  At 8 years old, Katie has a healthy respect for animals but doesn't fear them.  So since her gift and vision for the future is to work with animals, we are doing all we can to pursue, encourage, and build up her skills to follow that dream. 

Cleaning up after and caring for animals isn't really my idea of fun. But since Katie's enjoyment is contagious, I find myself having a good time alongside her.   

We arrange our school schedule to take Tuesdays off so she can volunteer during the day at the animal shelter.  Clinic day happens once a month.  It's during the day and it's basically the biggest event in her life. She has many jobs on clinic day. Her favorite job is monitoring and crating animals in recovery room while they are under anesthesia.  Because the animals can react to anesthesia, it's important for her to check their breathing.  She helps prepare lunch for everyone including volunteers, docs, and nurses.  Also, the adoption center undergoes quite a transformation to accommodate the monthly clinic so she sticks around to help put humpty dumpty back together again.    

At our most recent clinic day at the adoption center, a lady brought in a newborn kitten found in a parking lot.  Since a newborn kitten has a schedule of eating every 2-3 hours on bottle and has to be stimulated to use the bathroom, this lady was not able to provide this kind of care.  Apparently, she could see the word "SUCKER" written on our foreheads because as soon as we laid eyes on him, we decided to take him on.  

It was too early to tell the sex so a friend of mine called him Herm. (Her/Him) My husband called him Gato.  I called him Kitty.  Katie called him Boo.  

 Here's Gato Boo Herm Kitty  

It's amazing to watch my little 8 year old become responsible.  When she told me she would care for him, that's exactly what she meant.  Bottle feeding, stimulating, medicating, and all! There are days that she has to be cheered on, but for an 8 year old, I can't complain. 

When the word was out that we were fostering a newborn, we were asked to foster another newborn kitty.  We accepted.  What's another one, right? 

Initially, I had an agreement with Katie that I would take night shift feedings for our first foster and she would take days.  When we agreed to take on the other foster, she offered to help with night shift feedings.  She was true to her word.  She was up with me every 3-4 hours feeding the kittens at night.  

This was at 8am after a long night of feeding 

I couldn't feel more blessed to have a mature, hard working, and loyal young 8 year old by my side to live life with.  She didn't become this way without some elbow grease and sacrifice on our end as parents.  She became this way because she has been provided with a lifestyle of learning and experiencing at a schedule that works for her goals in life.  She never has to ask if she is needed in our family because we couldn't do it without her.  

So how are the foster kitties now?  

The black kitty went to a new home that was a purrrfect match.  Gato Boo Herm Kitty turned out to be a male and we all decided on the name Pete, Pete is now a part of the family.  

Katie has trained Pete to use a litter box and he just started eating solid foods today. He's a chunky little guy.   

Here's Pete and a day old ducky in my farmer's daughters lap! 

"It's been a fun challenge (yet for the black kitty a noisy challenge!) raising Pete.  He's a sweetie.  He's cute.  He's like a sit in your lap cat. Also, very weird at times.  He fights for the bottle a lot.  I'm glad he's starting to eat solid foods because-man-that was hard! Though I didn't like the stimulating part." ~Katie

The Broody Hen

We are expanding the chicken house!  Well, ok. We already "expanded" the chicken coop to make more room but now we are filling it up!  Well, trying to anyway.

We have a variety of hens and one rooster. Our main flock is a breed called Production Reds which has proven to be an excellent layer of large brown eggs.  They do exactly as their name...produce.  We want to expand our flock by hatching some new chickies from our Production Red eggs.  Good? Right?  Yes?

Sounds great! But not so easy.  We are learning there are a lot of factors to consider before a baby chick can be hatched if you are doing it the old fashioned way. In order for a chick to form, a rooster must have first fertilized the egg. The hen must lay the egg.  Mother must sit on egg providing the perfect temperature and humidity during incubation period for baby to form and hatch.  

BUT these gals wont sit on their eggs!

What gives?

From reading countless chicken forums I have come to the conclusion that the majority of the experienced chickens owners believe that Production Reds are basically a hybrid type chicken with the mothering instinct bred out of them.  Besides that, Hens get to choose when they go "broody". Something we can't force.

So what is broody anyway?  We are also learning about broody hens. Hens go "broody" when a certain hormonal change takes place.  Mothering instinct kicks in.  One day they are pecking around and the next they are sitting on eggs, rocks, tennis balls, or anything round while refusing to get up. They go in a trance like state only getting up 1 time a day to take care of business and stretch their legs. They will talk to their eggs, (or round objects) and rock them.  The broody hens are even famous for "adopting" eggs from other nests to sit on as many as possible. They will stay this way for 3-4 weeks (incubation period) and if they are really good mothers, until some babies hatch!  During this period they stop laying eggs and are even known to lay more than usual right before going broody.

So why not get a broody nanny hen to help us populate? That's just what we did.  Waaay cheaper than an incubator.  Plus, she will mother them.  No dealing with heat lights and fussy eaters!  Not to mention the chick will not feel orphaned.

We bought a Silkie Chicken from a friend! Silkies are known for their egg-celent mothering skills.
My husband calls her Tina Turner.  I call her Nanny.  Katie calls her Sugar.  She was named sweet beak by the former owner.

Sweet Nanny Tina Sugar Beak Turner.  Whatever you wish.
As custom around here, nothing really ever has one name.

Our broody Nanny hen, 

It just so happened that she was broody when we brought her home.  Since we got a sweet deal on sweet beak, we decided to purchase some of her flock.  Which are quite the uncommon breed. Sizzles is what they are called.  They are a cross between a Silkie and Frizzle. Both fuzzy and frilly.  Froo froo birds really! All of em.  They are also known to have strong mothering instincts.

Grown sizzle

Sizzle Chick

Since they are bantam (smaller) size they are not really practical for egg laying or meat birds compared to our much larger Production Reds that lay large brown eggs and are hearty in size.  We decided not to purchase a rooster to breed the flock.  Our main purpose was for these gals to mother our eggs.


So we gave Miss Sweet Nanny Tina Sugar Beak Turner 3 eggs of our Production Reds.  And 21 days later.....

Oh Yes!  We have a chick! 

Oh wait!  We have 2 chicks! 

The most exciting day was when we walked out and saw 2 new lives here!

Katie and I jumped up and down and celebrated!

When the baby chick is born, it absorbs the yolk which gives the baby 3 days to live without needing food or water.  Since the mother hen has a duty of raising the baby chicks such as teaching them how to drink, keeping them safe from the flock, and helping them gather food it is difficult for her to continue to sit on the unhatched eggs past the 3 days.  On about day 4 she abandoned the unhatched egg.

We waited patiently to see if she would sit on it again.  No go.  After 12 days of the unhatched egg being without an incubation environment, we decided that either the baby chick had chilled and died or the egg was unfertilized.  Katie and I decided to experiment by opening the egg. When the egg opened we heard a "cheep". I had not considered that a living chick would be present!  We tried to keep it warm but after about 5 minutes, it died.

What an emotional time for us.  We went through the "what ifs".
We buried the baby chick and chalked it up as another one of life's experience.  Life experience is what homeschool is all about anyway.


"It was a sad experience loosing a baby chick that was hatched too early. We know that it's ok.  We go through bad things in life and that was unexpected. At least we have the two other chicks that lived! I am having a fun time seeing chicks and how fluffy they are.  Oh they are so cute!  I am thankful for my broody little hen." ~ Katie 8 years old

Mr. Handsome Rooster 

School's Back In Session

We are back in school!

We had a fun summer.

My husband put a pool up.  Let me tell you about a labor of love!  Our property is on a slant with a large creek drop off in the back.  It was no easy task! Sand, front loaders, landscaping timbers, family and friends describes the scenery of the adventure of leveling out a spot.  We have truly enjoyed it! We better have!

My hard working nephews driving me around in a riding mower cart!  The driver is Jude, 8 yrs old.   These responsible boys hauled a lot of sand to help with pool. 

Also, we spent 3-4 days a week volunteering at a local animal adoption center. Katie has a special talent when it comes to animals.  We initially began this to gain experience as she aspires to become a Veterinarian.  Almost all volunteer organizations, especially government operated, discourage volunteers that are 18 and under.  However, this organization cherishes children and gives the young ones very important jobs and tasks.  She was welcomed and jumped right on in as part of the team.  One of the managers made a special call to Katie asking if she could come play with one of the small kitties who needed to socialize with children.  They believe that exposing the animals to children while in the shelter is beneficial and develops a positive temperament in the animals toward children.  These animals who are socialized with children have a good chance of comfortably being placed in homes with kiddos.  Animals really learn to enjoy the little ones when they are the hands that feed and love them!

However, we have taken so much more from this place than experience with animals. Not only has she learned responsibility with caring for the animals, it has given her additional experience in hard work.  She scoops up poop which is exceptional for an 8 year old girl with an overactive gag reflex! She is a faithful dishwasher, experienced laundry folder, and great at mopping! But it's not a chore for her, she enjoys it.  Katie is pleasant to work with and I have truly treasured our experiences together.          

We have challenged ourselves to designate one weekday to continue volunteer work and sewing classes.  Hence...why we have made the decision to start school a little early!

Some of our furry friends! 

We planted a garden in the spring and have been harvesting daily.  We plan to build a greenhouse before the fall!

A day's harvest! 

The horses like to lay by the garden.  They don't eat it! 

We have made additional goals this school year aside from academic.  We have agreed to go to the gym together at least 3-4 days during the weekday.  Luckily our local gym is privately owned and has given Katie special permission to work out on the equipment.  Which isn't always such a good thing because she is a serious personal training beast who doesn't cut me any slack! ;-)

We are still using the same A.C.E curriculum that we both enjoy.  Her studies are the perfect balance. Freedom to learn on her own while still needing my assistance and instruction frequently.
She sets her goals. I coach and encourage her to meet those goals answering questions along the way.  We are going on our 4th year without growing weary!  Also my sister with 5 kids is still managing well on this curriculum.

One of the greatest reasons why I enjoy A.C.E is that it teaches courteous manners that have been lost or aren't commonly practiced by young children.  Simple manners, for instance, the little boys letting the girls go first.  (Her Dad is the perfect tangible example of this!)  It's not taught as a snobbish expected standard by woman, it's about the young man humbly giving of himself for another young lady.  Little girls also give of themselves by stopping their play to help little sister find a lost doll or running to a child who is injured to help.  

It also teaches traditional Biblical ways of living that aren't so common in today's world but are 100% achievable.  There is a story line that has started since kindergarten about a little boy who attends a private christian school.  It's not far fetched like he lives in a perfect world. Though the main character's family has a traditional way of living, he has friends in the school who do not have traditional family homes.  Some have parents who live separately.  Some live in mobile home communities or apartments. They don't accuse or make the suggestion that these are inferior ways to live either.  It teaches common occurrences in this world yet the main character stays true to his own values and even teaches the new kids by example how to live a righteous life.  Such as a new school member who doesn't let the girls goes first but is pondering why the main character lets girls go first.  It's not that this little boy is evil, it's about the main character gently shepherding him in the right direction while embracing him as a friend.  I guess we shall find out in the years to come if his actions can win over this little boy.  I can say that is her biggest excitement about starting school again is to see what's going to happen with the characters while she learns!

Let the school work begin!

"Surprisingly my mom is learning so much more than I have learned.  At the shelter, all my furry friends act weird sometimes!  Sometimes Sylva will act like a sweetie and the next minute she's like a mean torture animal!  My favorite is Molly.  She was a sick kitty, but now she's better! I can't wait to see our new friend Barnie coming in tomorrow! They are going to be roomates. "~Katie

Crazy Sylva!

      

 He's so tall! We seem to loose his head in pictures! 

   

A Tribute to Katie

I am blessed with a wonderful 8 year old child!

So here we are at the close of yet another year.
I enjoy homeschooling! Mainly because of the person she is becoming.  Sure, she's smart.  But her character is of integrity.  No social hindrances.  She dreams big dreams.  She's a loyal friend.


To pay a tribute to her and the close of 2nd grade, I am sharing some of her greatest attributes that continue to develop:

1. She enjoys people...from newborns to 90 year olds.  She loves going to sewing class and designing quilts with the "sewing sisters". (A group of older ladies who sew at the church)  The first quilt she made was for her baby cousin Charity.

 

















2. Because of her genuine love for God's creatures, she volunteers at a pet adoption center at least one day a week cleaning and caring for homeless animals.  She dreams of being a vet someday.

3. She is a fancy gal and prefers to wear skirts.  Jeans give her wedgies she says. :)   Katie dresses modestly by her own personal choice.  She will make a friend who has never worn a dress or skirt and give them one as a gift!

 



































4. She calls her mom her best friend.

5. She stands for what she believes and is careful not to offend.

Because she doesn't believe in celebrating Halloween, she didn't wear a costume by her own choice.  

6.  She asks Mom for advice on life issues.  Usually over lunch. :)

7. Always a willing hand in the kitchen.  Some of our most cherished conversations have occurred gathered around the stove.

She makes good fried pies! 

8.  9 times out of 10 you can catch her caring for a furry friend.  And furry people just looooove her. :)

9. She's always up for an adventure! 

Soap making at Aunt Kelly's. 

10. She has an eagerness to do her best!

Year end grades:

Math                                            95

English                                          97

Word Building                              98

Lit and Creative Writing                97  

Science                                        99

Social Studies                              99

Bible Reading                              99 

Congratulations Katie on another successful year of hard work! 

Mom: Katie, what is your favorite part of 2nd grade?

Katie: "My favorite thing about 2nd grade was mostly literature. Oh, and I'm starting to like Math! Mostly my favorite favorite is social studies and science.  

Mom: What is the most interesting thing you learned this year?

Katie: "The most interesting thing I learned this year was about my eyes and senses. Oh and don't forget my favorite out of all grades-I think that 2nd grade is the best". 

Mom: What are you looking forward to learning next year?

Katie: "I am looking forward to learning to spell better in 3rd grade. I usually like to read stories from Bible reading and answering the questions too."